As listening to some music, A1 boy band......
Their music is young. Sweet and teenager stress-free music and all it sang on is Love, You are the only One and How Much I miss you etc etc. Can't help myself but to recall the days when i am in that "lovey dovey" stage. All in mind and heart is the boy I love. ..... *a smile appears in my heart when i even think about the innocence of myself*
We grow up to be more realistic. To learn to provide for your own and for ur family. In that, sometimes we choose paths that is not what we want, or even choose someone we do not really love but feel satisfy with his/her status. Debation, Novels, Professionals, Doctors in this area are most popular when people searches for advise help in this manner. Yes, the most and beloved topic - Relationships.
Men (some) say that career is more important but yet too can be so vunerable when they meet the 'right' girl. She can melt his heart and change his course, better still, she can be patient and wait for him and do what necessasity to support him which then comes with 2 scenario: -
1. He remembers and feel appreciate of what you done for him and feel u can be a good "wife" and do marry you and love you back as much as you do.
2. Remembers and Appreciate and feel u can be the a good wife and mother to his children but yet fall in love with another woman that satisfy his urge for romance or even his lust.
A senior one say recently to me: Behind a Successful Man there is a Woman (though he didn't say whether the woman is be the wife or not)
Women (some) say that career is more important but yet in time a woman is still a woman. Lord created woman to nurish her children and to care for her family. Yes, there is a lot of businesswoman out there, woman politician and all aspect of career there can be women out there. But yet, end of the day when they are 35 and above, what would they be finding themselves lacking?! Someone next to them. Toy-boys, Younger Age men, A Smarter Career Men, Mentality more superior, Mentality lower. Any sorts but end of it, a PARTNER. a Companion.
The 20th century, it has too be applicable to : Behind a Successful Woman there is a Man
Males or Female - Humans need a companion and a partner. People feel lonely. Some like to have sex buddies, some like to have dating partner. But end of the day, they don't want to be alone at night. Why night? Why not day? For a cancerian like me, the night rules me. Thats when the moon take over my soul and mind. I feel myself very vunerable at night specially with a full moon or half a moon. Sometimes I jsut want to shut down and not talk to anyone. Sometimes i feel sad and lonely. Sometimes I write my peoms on a full moon night and wept myself to comfort.
Indeed, the universe has it own power in life forms. Human bonding comes easier at night, specially with a reason to go out party and drink alcohol where human can interact without words but yet feel it is OK. Human self- reflect comes more emotional at night compare to day time.
As my reader for this, if you see a full moon. Stop for a 10 seconds (won't say 1 second). 10 seconds at least and look into the moon. Feel its energy and breath. Breath in the oxygen that you require and feel its message and comfort. Ask a question that you are seeking for an answer; And the answer would flow in to you.
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