It has been quite some time since i blogged.
I was away for a month (September). Went to Hong Kong to visit my sister, and went to singapore. Time was sooo rush that i don't think i had a rest. Phones were ringing, meeting up with friends, ex-collegues, ex-uni mates, ex-high school mates, ex-college mates and tuition friends and friends met via internet.
Arrive back Melbourne on Friday and started my new job on monday. Talk about the work next time.
Tonight I would like to share abt something else.
As these few days, I had a job offer to work in singapore but I was troubled whether to accept it. I always wanted to go. But yet I feel that my decision making process have been confused, with whether this is the time/trip to go or was it i was going down for a person?
Pride - Don't everyone have it? Is it my pride that is making me a confused and un-decisive person on my choices in life?
Prejudice - Am I not being prejudice on someone and even on some options I have?
I watch the movie. It is good and it is definitely more touching than the old old versions. In fact, It made me reflect on myself. I have been like Lizzie. Stubborn but yet scare. Stubborn for what i want and what i think is right. Scare in some way not to make a wrong choice. But yet, she did and she regreted so much for misunderstood Darcy. As for Jane, she love the man but yet shy and not brave enough to show her emotions but yet it is only human to be shy. Her sisters and mother was the cause of ppl "misunderstanding" the beauty of her. In reality, isn't this happening? Ppl always misjudge others by their family background and of their siblings. Or ppl have higher expectation or assumption on the person due to the his/her family background and of their siblings.
I don't know what is love and I don't know when I would fine my the other half. But all i know, looks is not the issue. I am not looking for a good looking guy (as my mother always think that is what i look into). I am just looking for someone that could have a proper conversation with me. Someone who can just make me laugh with his way of speech. Someone who can just communicate with me and talk to me without me having to explain too detail and specific. 重视恋爱中语言的交流
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