Girl Friendss

I am in singapore now. Everything is going well. I presume. Just that I don’t have a group of friends that I could hang out with.

I miss you guys so much. In Melbourne, there is Rachel, Shanice, Nadia, June, Jimmy, Hwan, Ting , SHanShan, we would meet up on Friday nights for dinner and drinking. Weekends too. Shanice usually would come by in the weekends and walk crystal and then bath her (nadia and Rachel sometimes join in) then we would go for dinner or movie. Then same thing, drinks or chill out at someones place. Sometimes clubbing. We would always have a gf to dance with and the silly moves of each other that we laugh about later. I still remember ms SHANSHAN comment on my moves. And I still remember my Sa Da Jie ones too. And …. Basically everyones. J

Someone to gossip about anything , someone to share your downs and support you. Eventhough some are still studying and some are working, but we manage to support each other. Sometimes we go out in big group and sometimes in individual group. Kinda everyone would find someone closer. But it was happening. Full of laughter always because someone would come out with some funny statements even the most least spoken one. Girl friends, sisters, jie mei….. it is indeed different having girl friends.

My Msia friends, I miss having my mamak drinks with you guys. I miss having the parties I usually organize where everyone do show up and the craziness we would go to. Mobile phone are busy as we gossip and talk about old days. Sms of concerns and care. It was good. Simplicity and indeed good.

Not to say I won’t be able to have this friendship in Singapore. But yet, it seems different. I wanted to go out and explore Singapore. However, I see myself kinda not going out. Do I really have to go to clubs to meet new friends? Or should I say, I should mature up. Everyone is busy with their work and partners. Who have time to be “girl friends” with you? I know I know. Just kinda that simplicity in me is still there and I loved it. In Singapore , I have ex-collegues, secondary and primary school friends and even my internet friends. It is good for once in a while catch up but not someone to share more. Guess that’s why ppl look for partners (bf gf) to fit into this.

But I don’t understand sometimes, if u got a partner how come u won’t have time for ur friends? Ahhh because u are in a comfort zone. All u need is to accommodate one person needs and requirements and not a group of people. Indeed indeed. But yet as for my new resolution to myself I told that I won’t. I would still want to catch up with my friends. If they still take me as friends.

So my friends who are now situated in Singapore. You have always been my friend, eventhoguh we didn’t hang out much or talk on the phone much but lets give our friendship another chance, lets be friends again! SIAO right me writing this? WHO CARES (as quoted by Jimmy Lao @ Melbourne).