Due to writing this blog, I nearly lost a friend. A friend that i knew in 2002 which i pretty much wrote to everyday teling my days and sharing my views with. However my friend saw my blog in a different prespective.
there is so much justification to his accusisation that i want to justify but felt, is he too quick in just assuming thats the way i am??
Indeed he is much older and may be much wiser than me. but yet my blog is a place where I can express myself and also to talk and view things in another footwear. Indeed it takes time to know a person in knowing what words she/he says are really meant and what are say to let go of his frustration.
my blog on abortion - i too agree that it is very cruel and selfish of the girl to let the parents go through those mental and financial burden. but I am not saying how i wish my parents to spend their money and mental health for me on those occasion, but what i mean is whethre my parents still accept me as their daughter and support me to go through it? and not chase me out of the door and ask me to live/die on my own (where u get to see on TV shows a lot) .
For the guy in KL that came through , he thinks of me being greedy to accept the gift and let him heart broken home. How he not know i felt pain on being cold on him and had to do that. we were pen pals thats why i gave my address to him in Australia but I did not when i was in singapore. I just roughly told him which suburb i am as I always have trust for all my friends. I trust he won't abuse my trust. But yet , once again he did. However this friend of mine think different.
Me smsing my friends at the middle of the night is when i felt the most weakest. It is when i thought of someone, of course u can say why not just tell her/ him u miss them and not talk about something else. But to me, thats how i felt to make things that we are close and he/she is in my heart. Maybe to some this is inconsiderate but to some they appreciate my thoughts.
Yes I am childish and naive. He felt that I have motives. I guess I can't blame him for being so. But I have not any motives and thats why i don't see a reason for me to explain all my words and thought to him and hoping he would see me for who i am, see the inner side of me, or to see the other me.
I believe man and a woman does not always have to be physical. I believe there is pure friendship. I was hoping he could be one of them. maybe the ways I communicate with him needs to be change. Maybe the words are use are misleading him. Maybe he doesn't understand how i blog. how i feel when i blog and how i position myself in different angles.
Told you guys I am a mess up in the brains person ... complicated too. :) But thank you for still loving me and caring for me. Thinking of the pure friendship and love you guys gave me really warmths my heart and reminds me that i would not disappoint anyone of you! :)
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My dear ...you can choose to call him or sms him from 9am to even 10pm
but 3.45am in the wee morning just asking where to eat kaya bread is a bit out of line ...right??
I dun think you miss him but rather your kaya bread ...right ?
now who is the victim here ???
I most humbly ask you
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Me smsing my friends at the middle of the night is when i felt the most weakest. It is when i thought of someone, of course u can say why not just tell her/ him u miss them and not talk about something else. But to me, thats how i felt to make things that we are close and he/she is in my heart. Maybe to some this is inconsiderate but to some they appreciate my thoughts.
If abortion occurs once , we can deem it an honest mistake , twice , maybe we can still be forgiving BUT
THRICE !!!! its downright wilful and unrepentent!!!!
3 innocent children's lives snuffed out and of no fault of theirs , depriving two poor elderly parents a chance to hold grandchildren and on top of that the mental anguish of having to go thru the trauma of flying there , paying the air fares , the medical bills , police investigations , paper work , 3 times they have to experience such a torture and I ask you who is the victim here
No children should be that cruel to their parents :(
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my blog on abortion - i too agree that it is very cruel and selfish of the girl to let the parents go through those mental and financial burden. but I am not saying how i wish my parents to spend their money and mental health for me on those occasion, but what i mean is whethre my parents still accept me as their daughter and support me to go through it? and not chase me out of the door and ask me to live/die on my own (where u get to see on TV shows a lot)
Greed is not word here
but I think you might have misled this person
no normal girl will give an address to a guy unless the girl have size him up to be dependable
that man might and could very well turn out to be a stalker which is common..if a person is not able or reciprocate feelings or kind to another person...its wise not to accept anything...its not cruel if you look at it , I think a girl who stands by principles will not convienently takes anything for free and offers NOTHING in return
to put it more bluntly
like it or not ...its call
'deception'
I know its crude but HONESTY is that BRUTAL ...I guess :(
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For the guy in KL that came through , he thinks of me being greedy to accept the gift and let him heart broken home. How he not know i felt pain on being cold on him and had to do that. we were pen pals thats why i gave my address to him in Australia but I did not when i was in singapore. I just roughly told him which suburb i am as I always have trust for all my friends. I trust he won't abuse my trust. But yet , once again he did. However this friend of mine think different.
Not everyday lah
once in while lah
only recently its more frequent but still its not daily lah
:(
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Due to writing this blog, I nearly lost a friend. A friend that i knew in 2002 which i pretty much wrote to everyday teling my days and sharing my views with. However my friend saw my blog in a different prespective.
Cheer up dear... be strong.. live smart.. die happily.. :)
"if a person is not able or reciprocate feelings or kind to another person...its wise not to accept anything...its not cruel if you look at it , I think a girl who stands by principles will not convienently takes anything for free and offers NOTHING in return"
greediness is easy to see in your actions.
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