"墮胎不負責任事件﹐註定不得好死"

"墮胎不負責任事件﹐註定不得好死" - quoted by Wong Li Shen on MSN

A friend of mine wrote this as her title on MSN. I was wondering, the topic, Abortion has been a world wide topic. Everyone have their own view on it.. What would your view be my readers of my blog ?!

Lets share my view.

A catholic I am, to go through abortion is the worst deadline sin in my mothers view and also of religion and of course it is a SIN to do so. Of course, don't talk about gotten rape which result the preganancy but jsut a normal scenario. As mom say, u want to happy then u have to bear the result. True, to have sex (make love) was a enjoyable process and having the baby is the cause of it. Because sex (make love) main reason is to make baby - the seed of love. Responsibilities lies through.

I had a friend who just dated his gf for 1 month and she is pregnant. They are married and having their 2nd child in less than 3 years. They have their up and downs but to see this sort of look "playboy" guy has his fatherly side. They have a house and a family. Settle down it is. They are average 26 27 both professionals. One is a engineer and one works in law firm.

I too had a friend who went through abortion 3 times. First, she was in Uni (20) she really loved this guy but they were both in Uni. 2nd time she aborted when she was in Uni too (22), and her most recent abortion was when she was 26. All three abortion she wanted to keep the baby , but her partners are not ready to have them. And of course so is she. She was still studying her uni and defintitely not capable to take care of a baby. It lies to her partner which they object of having the baby, one even doubt that she was pregnant. Incredible! Her parents flew in for the third abortion to help her go through it. At one stage, I really envy her to have parents like hers, I imagine, what would my parents do if they found out i am pregnant before marriage?!

Some young girls are like me. Worry about the parents response, worry about the "face" and choose another path to end this issue. they go for suicidal or secretly go through abortion at some crappy clinic. If only they are more close or more open to their parents, if only parents are more acceptable to this situation and react more calmly and not yell and scream "Bad daughter, u no longer my daughter, get out of my house, u cheap slut, simple sleep with people, u totally don't care ur family , u are cheap as a whore, whore at least get money, u let ppl sleep on you for free.... totally no value u ... etc etc "

I can imagine if a girl age 18, if she is not strong, how much pressure she goes through hearing those words from her parents and her bf then is only a punk too who is studying or working, who is totally helpless in a point of them. Even they get marry, the guys side parents would always look down on her. "what a cheap girl, easily get done, marry into our family also not proper.... no class... not compatible to our family .. etc etc"

Words... all words. Words from the girls family and words from the guys family. Because of worrying to hear this words for years to go, they choose abortion. Could you blame them for choosing this path? Whether u are a 22 year old or a 18 year old, these words are really unbearable. Wheter u are educated or uneducated, there is a moral and a culture that exist in the human society that u would have to bear. Young executives these days think different, true, they think of long term, but then if u are not a married woman and go through abortion, what would ppl see on u? what would ppl think of you? But then if u don't have a father for the child, what would ur child go through and what would ppl think of them in future?

once again, if u ask me whether i support abortion, i really do not know how to answer. All i can say, it depends on situation and people. How much I do not wish abortion to happen, as it is killng a living thing. But yet, if 2 people were responsibile, they should have done the neccessity to prevent it for happening. In this modern world, there are pre and after preganancy preventions. why don't they just do it ? lazy ? selfish? All is said, it is just a choice. Do u choose to do it right or not.